Meet Sugar Daddy

There is no man as valuable as a man that helps others, and no man is as helpful as the "sugar daddy" It is rare to find a woman who hasn't met him or hasn't been helped by "sugar daddy" because he is everywhere. Some say he was created by an unknown force in the universe as a gift to women who are in distress. If that is true we should treat the "sugar daddy" as a "holy man" and hope his presence will be eternal. But there are those that despise him and wish he would go away. There are many reasons for their anger. The main reason is jealousy. A financially insecure young man is sure to be deeply hurt when his woman is taken away from him by a "sugar daddy". But it is unfair to put the blame on others when his former girlfriend chose what she thinks is best for herself. Another reason "sugar daddies" are not liked is because they choose only the best looking women and disregard the rest. We can't blame "sugar daddy" if he has good taste and can't understand what "inner beauty" means. Many of the most attractive women have been wined and dined by "sugar daddy", some have even married him. The majority of those marriages have been happy ones. A twenty five year old woman who marries a fifty year old guy with a good paying job is a match made in heaven. It is almost sure to last. He will adore her and she will love the well focused attention and the easy life given to her by him.

A man that has worked hard and has becomes financially secure should be respected. It is not easy to rise above poverty in a competitive world. He earned what he has and is entitled to spend his money in anyway he sees fit. Some gamble or drink it away. Others become workaholics to support their family and have little pleasure. But the "sugar daddy" wants to spend his hard earned money in a different way. His greatest pleasure is to be in the company of beautiful young women. And he will use all his money to make that happen. Some see him as a fool or some sort of a joke but he is far from being a stupid person. He has earned his right to be called a "sugar daddy" by years of toil which gave him enough money to spend on beautiful ladies. His only desire is to make love to attractive young women. And he has the right to follow his nature.

Most women find it difficult going with a man that is much older. The main reason for feeling that way is that their friends and family won't accept the relationship. They think that she should choose a man in her own age range. They would rather see her go with the poor and lazy guys that are available. But an independent woman will make her own decision about the right man for herself. Even if they label her boyfriend a "sugar daddy" he will become her new man. When they see her driven around in a brand new sports car her reputation will be ruined. The neighbors will whisper that she has sold herself out for the almighty buck. But when the neighbors see her beautiful new clothes and the large diamond ring on her finger they will secretly like to change places with her.

Donald Trump is the most famous "sugar daddy" he has dated and married beautiful women who were thirty years younger than himself. His wives and dates were some of the most attractive women in the world. It would be wrong to "bad mouth" him for his lifestyle. He has the perfect right to choose freely whom he dates. Most men would be glad to trade places with him. The majority of women in the world would gladly be his wife. I am sure that if Trump put an ad in the paper that he was in the market for a new wife and that he was accepting applications, the mailrooms of the post office could never handle the volume. We have to thank Trump for giving the name "sugar daddy" a much deserved respectable status.

We all love beautiful things and shy away from what is unattractive. Nature is very cruel because it selects certain people to be more attractive than others. It would be a fairer world if every person looked like a Hollywood star. It would be even better if outward appearances were not that important. But none of us can deny that we are influenced by a person's good looks. Men in positions of power choose only beautiful women as wives and pass by the less than attractive. The "sugar daddy" thinks like those in power because he is influenced only by appearances. We should accept the way they both think because all men will imitate them if given the chance. Those of us that say: "inner beauty" is more important then external appearances are only fooling themselves. There is nothing as beautiful or important in this world as an extremely attractive woman. There are thousands of stories written about her loveliness. Few stories are written about inner beauty.

It is sinful to be cruel to people that are less than attractive. They should be respected. All of us no matter how attractive will one day lose our looks. I saw a photo of Ava Gardner in her later years; you would never believe that she was once labeled the most beautiful woman in the world. In the end nature evens everything out and we all get a chance to be homely. But the "sugar daddy" does not wait for Mother Nature to destroy what is beautiful. He buys the best that is available before it ripens. It is wrong to blame him for his wisdom.